Sienz til Kiao!

Ngai! This morning went to church lo~ Early early morning, sun oso haven't rise aldy woke up=.=' Sat inside the church, look look around, one liang zai liang moi oso don't have, all aunty and uncle nia~ Make me more sleepy, haiz.. Bo bian la! Mum force me go de, have to give face give face her ma go lo~ Acted like I was listen to what pastor talking, but my heart my mind already like a bird, fly here and there~ Fly Fly fly til far far away~~~

Haiz... My life here reli sienz til 'explode' la! Everyday wake up in the early morning, go work, go home, online then ZZzzzz. Muay Thai oso very 'lai' to go dy. Evryday repeat and repeat, friends not here also, so miss life in Miri la! Even thought there has no entertainment, but at least got a lot of friends sit together to 'blow water'.

Mavis came back yesterday, we went yam cha together. Suddenly realize that Mavis, Kris and me really in the different stage. Everyone change. Not like before. People says, you can see a lot of things when you step in to the society. Izit becoz of this, ppl change? And i'm still, a student, so our thoughts are different? This world is very realistic. Peoples use each others always, no one will sacrify for you if there has no benefit for him/herself. Haiz..... Human really complicate!

Welcome to another blog

Yesterday i opened a new blog! It's my 3rd blog, (1st blog was in Cari, but i closed it edi). I named the blog as "Meaningful Life", why? Because the main articles in that blog is to post those meaningful articles which i seen or 'met'. I think every of my friends know I'm a person who very "sot" to online. So, i love to surf here and there during online. I like to see meaningful short stories, which can always touch my heart. And they always make me learn a lot of things which can't find from text books.

So, by opening the "Meaningful Life", i can share those articles to you guys, and i can collect them in a place and i no need to google it if I need them. Lolz!! Please visit my new blog at http://greatlife2009.blogspot.com/ , and don't forget to leave me a comment k!!

女孩应该原谅男孩的10个地方

1如果你喜欢他就告诉他，即使他拒绝了，也不会丢面子，因为在他心里，会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。

2如果他喜欢你，要明确告诉他你对他的感情，喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢，千万不要怕伤害他而忧郁不决，不要让他等到最后才受到抛弃，因为男孩子的心一旦碎了就很难很难再好起来。

3男孩子也有自己的脾气，只是因为爱你而压抑着，不要总是任性，有时他们的决定也很有道理.

4男孩子莫名的向你发脾气，那时因为爱你，把你当成最亲，最贴心，最有安全感的人，千万不要冲他发脾气反击，静静的等着，等他消气后满怀后悔来抱你。

5他为你准备的东西，即使再难看，再廉价，也要去珍惜，因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。

6相信他给你多么多么美好的生活，要给他鼓励，因为鼓励会让他创造奇迹。

7不要总是打探他去哪，告诉他注意安全，你会等着他就可以。

8不要总说~我爱你~，他会半真半笑着说你烦，但不要不说，因为有时候，他们比女孩子更需要这句。

9他为你掉眼泪了，那么他是真的非常爱你，珍惜他的每一滴泪，不要道歉，不要安慰，握着他的手，默默的为他擦去泪滴。

10要信任他，他爱你，就什么都不会骗你，即使真的有欺骗，也是为让你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃。

牛转乾坤Happy New Year

There were a lot of things came to me before the year 2009. Seems like the year 2008 love me so much, it want to me remember this year before it gone. I wonder what would happen in this year, but i will make my life changing and try to make my life in 2009 always with happiness! I believe, there will be a revolution of my life in this year.

So, here are some strategy i had set to change my life.

• No alcoholic drinks are allow for me, except wine.
• No more clubbing
• Try to love myself more, before letting someone to love me
• Try to do exercise at least twice a week
  
• Try not to say rude word
• Find a suitable church for me
• Be positive always

So friends i wish for your help, stop me from alcoholic drinks, don't ask me for clubbing, you can beat me or scold me when I'm sad or think negative and I need a church! I want my life change!
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'When the Sunset, my sadness and worries will brought to the sea together with the Sun.
When the Sunrise, the Sun will smile at me and says, here's your new day, you have choice to choose how to live today.'

母亲一生的八个谎话——看完请不要流泪‏

儿时，小男孩家很穷，吃饭时，饭常常不够吃，母亲就把自己碗里的饭分给孩子吃。母亲说，孩子们，快吃吧，我不饿！――母亲撒的第一个谎

男孩长身体的时候，勤劳的母亲常用周日休息时间去县郊农村河沟里捞些鱼来给孩子们补钙。鱼很好吃，鱼汤也很鲜。孩子们吃鱼的时候，母亲就在一旁啃鱼骨头，用舌头舔鱼骨头上的肉渍。男孩心疼，就把自己碗里的鱼夹到母亲碗里，请母亲吃鱼。母亲不吃，母亲又用筷子把鱼夹回男孩的碗里。母亲说，孩子，快吃吧，我不爱吃鱼！――母亲撒的第二个谎。

上初中了，为了缴够男孩和哥姐的学费，当缝纫工的母亲就去居委会领些火柴盒拿回家来，晚上糊了挣点分分钱补点家用。有个冬天，男孩半夜醒来，看到母亲还躬着身子在油灯下糊火柴盒。男孩说，母亲，睡了吧，明早您还要上班呢。母亲笑笑，说，孩子，快睡吧，我不困！――母亲撒的第三个谎

高考那年，母亲请了假天天站在考点门口为参加高考的男孩助阵。时逢盛夏，烈日当头，固执的母亲在烈日下一站就是几个小时。考试结束的铃声响了，母亲迎上去递过一杯用罐头瓶泡好的浓茶叮嘱孩子喝了，茶亦浓，情更浓。望着母亲干裂的嘴唇和满头的汗珠，男孩将手中的罐头瓶反递过去请母亲喝。母亲说，孩子，快喝吧，我不渴！――母亲撒的第四个谎。

父亲病逝之后，母亲又当爹又当娘，靠着自己在缝纫社里那点微薄收入含辛茹苦拉扯着几个孩子，供他们念书，日子过得苦不堪言。胡同路口电线杆下修表的李叔叔知道后，大事小事就找岔过来打个帮手，搬搬煤，挑挑水，送些钱粮来帮补男孩的家里。人非草木，孰能无情。左邻右舍对此看在眼里，记在心里，都劝母亲再嫁，何必苦了自己。然而母亲多年来却守身如玉，始终不嫁，别人再劝，母亲也断然不听，母亲说，我不爱！――母亲撒的第五个谎

男孩和她的哥姐大学毕业参加工作后，下了岗的母亲就在附近农贸市场摆了个小摊维持生活。身在外地工作的孩子们知道后就常常寄钱回来补贴母亲，母亲坚决不要，并将钱退了回去。母亲说，我有钱！――母亲撒的第六个谎


男孩留校任教两年，后又考取了美国一所名牌大学的博士生，毕业后留在美国一家科研机构工作，待遇相当丰厚，条件好了，身在异国的男孩想把母亲接来享享清福却被老人回绝了。母亲说，我不习惯！――母亲撒的第七个谎 晚年，母亲患了胃癌，住进了医院，远在大西洋彼岸的男孩乘飞机赶回来时，术后的母亲已是奄奄一息了。母亲老了，望着被病魔折磨得死去活来的母亲，男孩悲痛欲绝，潸然泪下。母亲却说，孩子，别哭，我不疼。――母亲撒的第八个谎 不论你多富有,不管你官多大,到什么时候也离不开咱的妈....愿天下父母平安度春秋....... 珍惜母亲的每一个谎言,好好的对待父母,很多东西,失去后才得来的珍贵代价太大.所以一定要好好的爱我们的父母~

如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?
如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼? 是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開? 是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好? 在此祝福全天下父母平安度春秋~~

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